BDSM is bondage and discipline, sado-masochism. It is the erotic pleasure that people take in giving pain, enduring pain, giving dominance, giving punishment, enduring punishment, giving humiliation, enduring humiliation. But it is all in the realm of playtime. One way to explore power-play during sex is through BDSM.
BDSM fantasy is fantasy, and it turns us on, fantasies about power and control. BDSM was the perfect kind of outlet for that. And it helped people cope with their anxieties around sex, by getting them out of their heads, which is still a part of the appeal of BDSM today.
It is a full immersion that you are creating yourself and that you get to experience with somebody else, and it is what we call in BDSM, we call it play. Because it is that part of us that has forgotten how to just role-play.
The fact that almost everyone was having some type of BDSM fantasy tells us this is not some rare or unusual sexual interest.
I like to be the submissive, because I am in control a lot of my life. But being submissive in sex doesn't mean I am not in control of the sex because I am in control of everything in sex. So it's just another natural extension of my own personality. Hardwired to be kinky, it's part of my sexual orientation. It's just part of my queerness. There is a very safe way to work through all fetishes and all kinds of ideas and kinks through BDSM. It is actually a wonderful way to do that.
Most of our fantasies reflect basic human needs: Group sex, usually threesome (Feeling desired and validated), Novelty (breaking out of our routines), Power and control (and coping with anxieties). And many of our most popular fantasies mix and match these genres.
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